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I'm not going to go into too many specifics on this but there is a relationship that I need to let go. I mean I have let go, but actually what I need to do is be okay with the fact it failed. But failed is such a negative word. Be okay with the fact that we aren't friends anymore. For awhile, we were close. However, I did not have a lot of self esteem and I felt that my role was to be a yes man. Eventually I was being suffocated, but I didn't know how express myself or to stop being a yes man. I wanted to be my own person. Relationships are a two-way street and I wish I could have found a way to explain how I was feeling instead of slowly withdrawing. I knew that for myself, I had to stop being a yes man. But I didn't know how to put that in words. I would like to be able to look back at this for the good things. In a lot of ways this relationship helped set me free and showed me I could stand up for myself.
From In the Violet Hour's 30 Days of Truth.
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It is always strange when a friendship has to come to an end. I seem to be a sucker for toxic friendships. Happily I realized that I am, and why I am, so I finally feel like I don't have any negative relationships right now. Yay!
But boy, that process of ending friendships is always odd and uncomfortable.
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